We've discussed how a
friends-with-benefits situation can lead to problems. But if you're single, sometimes you want to be able to enjoy a little nooky with a partner who you actually know, so there are some perks to having a trusted booty call. Of course it's all about finding a balance between physical intimacy and emotional detachment.
A little flattery can go a long way when it comes to boosting the ego, but even praise can get excessive sometimes. To be honest, I’ve never been a fan of the male gaze; no matter the guy, I just don’t like being stared at. My girlfriends see it as a form of flattery, but to me, being ogled is just too much.
While
quickies can be fun, I think there's something to be said for languishing in some serious foreplay. Not only does it really get you in the mood, but it's a great opportunity to communicate your needs to your partner.
I think foreplay is best when you take your time, letting a burst of intensity sneak in every once and a while, but some people like foreplay to be short and sweet.
It’s always been assumed that every once and a while, men
fantasize about another woman while having sex. But for women, fantasizing about someone else often leads to feelings of guilt and relationship insecurity. However, truth be told, just as a
small crush is perfectly normal, so is fantasizing about someone else while doing the deed.
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I are both 20, and we have been dating for almost two years. We're a very sexual couple and have sex at least three times a week, however I'm not so sure it's because he's attracted to me or because he just needs the sex. He watches porn every other day and masturbates daily.
Have you ever seen
Elexa condoms at the drugstore and wondered what made them so different? Yeah sure, they have a very lovely colorful package with a sexy woman on the front, but there's more to it.
Elexa is a brand made by Trojan, that's specifically designed for women.
I know I'm always looking for ways to spice up the action in the bedroom, so here's a fun idea you can try out. It's called "YOUR Turn — MY Turn," and here's how it works.
- Choose 2 consecutive nights that you and your partner are available.
I love my bike. It's orange, so what's not to love. I love biking around town to run errands and I wish I could commute via bike.
When we're busy, tired or overwhelmed, it's easy to become less aware of our surroundings, less connected to ourselves or others, and less tuned in to our pleasures. But our 5 senses act as the conduits for comfort, contact and enjoyment, and we rob ourselves of many rich experiences when our awareness strays.
For the rest of today, try to notice the sensual information around you.
